Tuesday, January 14, 2014

Rainy Days Call For A Little Lilly

Hey y'all,

I realized I have yet to share with y'all any more outfit photos from my adventure with Allison back in November! I have a go to outfit for work on rainy days and while today is really gross outside I almost wore this exact outfit to work. I always like to mix bright colors in on a dreary day to cheer myself up, I mean life is colorful even in a stormy gray day.


My current go to work bag is the Flicker Sophie from Kate Spade New York (sold out) but I am loving this Michael Kors one and this blush Kate Spade tote.



Top: Old Navy (old)/Pants: Target/ Shoes: Ralph Lauren Amarissa Flats (old)/ Scarf: Lilly Pulitzer Murfee Scarf in Fiesta Pink Spring Fling/ Monogram Necklace: ElizaJay Charm/ Watch: Anne Klein (old)/ Bangles: KSNY bridesmaid idiom & this is the year (2012 version this years can be found here) idiom
I hope y'all have a nice (dry) day! Do you have a go to rainy day outfit? 

Here's my OOTD today:



Sunday, January 12, 2014

Sunday Sayings {January 12}

Hey y'all,

While I am taking a lazy Sunday and preparing for a long week I hope these quotes and pins bring some much needed inspiration and reflection.
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And since I have studied Proverbs 31 last year I loved this list!
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What has been inspiring you as you plan for your week?

Saturday, January 11, 2014

52 Questions in 52 Weeks {2}

Hey y'all,

It's the second week of 52 questions in 52 weeks so let's get started with today's topic:

2.When and where were you born? Describe your home, your neighborhood and the town you grew up in.
San Antonio, TX
Ok, so I was born on January 31st in San Antonio, Texas. As far as the home and neighborhood I grew up in I was an "Army brat" meaning we moved a lot when I was little. I lived in Texas, upstate New York, San Antonio again, Germany and then North Carolina. I feel that as far as a home I grew up in they were all very varied. I mean I lived in an old farm house with lots of land including my own vegetable garden when we lived in New York but in Germany I finally had my own room but the house we lived in was not detached and in fact had one-two rooms per floor so think 7 floors including the basement. 
Rochester, NY
Towns also varied. San Antonio is a large metro-center and I loved growing up there, yes I have been to the Alamo and RiverWalk numerous times whenever anyone came to visit. But, in New York we were outside of Rochester in a rural part of the country and in Germany we were in the suburbs of a large city. In North Carolina my parent's have lived in the same house now for over 10 years so it feels very rooted. It is part of a large town but still suburbs and I am glad they are only a short drive away from me now. 
Wurzburg, Germany
So as far as the Miranda Lambert song of the House that Built me goes, I have multiple homes over multiple cities/states/countries.
Link-Up below:

Friday, January 10, 2014

Book Club Friday {January 10}

Hey y'all,

I figured it was high time that I re-cap some of the books I was able to finish during my mini-blog break.

I was very fortunate to receive the first six books from "A Year of Weddings" novella series from Zondervan publishing via Netgalley. The series is written by various Christian romance authors and each novella will be published the month before it's titled, as in the December bride was published in November and so on. You can currently read the December and January novellas with the February bride coming out in a few weeks. Here are the descriptions and my thoughts.

What started as a whim turned into an accidental - and very public - engagement. Can Layla and Seth keep up the facade in Chapel Springs this holiday season - for the sake of her career . . . and his heart?
Under normal circumstances, Seth Murphy, the best friend of Layla O'Reilly's ex-fiance would be the last person she'd marry. But the news of their upcoming (and phony) nuptials convinces a big client that Layla may be high-society enough to work for his agency, a coup that would put her fledgling home-staging business on the map. Seth has secretly loved Layla for years, even when she was dating his best friend. Maybe she'll never forgive him for the way he hurt her back then, but he has to try. And Layla is willing to keep up their engagement farce until she's landed her client. For Layla, it's the chance to save her career. But for Seth, it's his last chance to win her heart.


I loved this start to the series. The romance was very believable and it was a great story to read over the holidays. I would highly recommend this book, I was crying, laughing and freaking out my family, which is usual when I am reading a great story.


Who can work in a house that's overrun by contractors and carpenters? Not Madeleine Houser, a successful novelist who gladly accepts the help of her octogenarian friend, Ginny, to arrange for a temporary office in the charming bed and breakfast owned by Ginny's friend, Arthur. Maddie’s never met the innkeeper––but a friendship grows between them as Maddie and Arthur leave messages for each other each day. To Maddie’s alternate delight and chagrin, she seems to be falling for the inn’s owner––a man who's likely many years her senior––and who she’s never even met.

I also really enjoyed this story. I thought the letters that incorporated this story where so sweet and I loved them multiple perspectives. It is a cute story of mistaken identity and finding friendship before love.

In A February Bride by Betsy St. Amant, history repeats itself when this bride runs out of the church on her wedding day---in the same dress that had been passed down for generations and worn by her mom, grandma and great-grandmother who also ran out of their weddings. The heroine struggles to break destructive cycles of the past. Can this bride shuck expectation and discover who SHE is as a bride and in the Bride of Christ? And if she finally walks down the aisle, what dress will she be wearing? Readers will enjoy this novel of redemption centered on a winter wedding.


I wasn't originally sold on this one. I mean the girl thinks that her wedding dress is cursed and will not marry the man of her dreams because of it. It was a quick read but not my favorite in the series.


Susanna has found her true prince, and their happily ever after is just around the corner. But when Nate asks her to give up something precious to her, Susanna can’t help but wonder if it’s a sign that their love is not meant to be.
Susanna Truitt (Once Upon A Prince) is three weeks from royalty. She’ll soon marry King Nathaniel II of Brighton Kingdom. But when the government insists she renounce her American citizenship before the wedding, coupled with the lack of involvement by family and friends, her heart begins to doubt whether this marriage is God’s plan for her.
Nathaniel would do anything for his bride-to-be. But he knows his position requires that she give up a lot to be with him. Her life will never be her own — right down to her very identity. When she travels home to St. Simon’s Island, Georgia, right before the wedding, Nathaniel fears she won’t return. Gathering his courage, he devises a plan to win his bride all over again, and together they seek out a kingdom to treasure above all.


Y'all probably now know that I am in love with the story of Once Upon a Prince(a Christian romance that is similar to the Prince & Me). This is a follow up of my favorite couple and it was great to see them again with all their flaws, insecurities and love as they plan for their royal wedding. 


War changes everything . . . even their love.
Bride-to-be Stella Carson can’t wait to marry her longtime sweetheart Marshall Henderson. But Marshall has been away serving his country and after suffering a head wound and being diagnosed with post-traumatic stress syndrome, he has distanced himself from Stella by asking her not to visit him in a Washington, D.C. hospital.
Marshall returns to Louisiana just four weeks before the wedding, but as the big day draws near, Stella wonders if the man she’s loved for most of her life still wants to marry her.

This story started out with heartbreak but it was very sweet and focused on the fact that love can continue on through various hardships and disabilities. I loved the strength of the two main characters and the sense of renewal between re-discovering a person after a brain injury.


She’s prepared for her wedding all her life … but she forgot a few things.
Ellie Martin, a country girl in Atlanta, often de-stresses from city life by tending the flower beds of a church near her apartment. She has dreamed of a traditional wedding all her life, a wedding like the one her younger sister is planning back in their hometown. Their single mom will pay for Alexa’s wedding, but Ellie started her own wedding fund years ago. She only needs to find a groom.
She bumps into a man who’s a guest at a wedding on the church grounds. She’s noticed him around the neighborhood, but today he introduces himself as Gray Whitby. They embark on a whirlwind romance, but her mother doesn’t trust freewheeling men like him. Standing up to Mom leads Ellie to stick up for Alexa too. When Ellie risks her own plans for her sister’s sake, Gray feels betrayed. Will he always play second fiddle?
Will Ellie and Gray reconcile their differences so her dream wedding can come true, or will the romance they’ve begun come crashing down?

Ok, I am going to go on a mini-tantrum. I really hated this book. Unfortunately, the romance which you expect from this collection of stories was not there and it was mainly the story of a woman and her mother and their fights over everything. The entire relationship from meeting, dating, engagement are all in this story but I was not rooting for the guy to get the girl. It felt very whirlwind and controlling between the two of them but since I had read all the other stories (and not one of them is more than 200 pages) I continued to read it to hope it would get better but it really doesn't. I think you could pass on this month.


Are you excited for A Year of Weddings? Any great reads from the start of 2014 you have discovered?

Wednesday, January 8, 2014

WILW {January 8}

Hey y'all,

Wow this week has been flying by. I have been wrapped up in work and spending my nights either at the gym or catching up with people I haven't seen since before the holidays. Anywho, here are some things I have been loving this week:

...decorating the apartment. Last night, my roomate and I finally began to put up some art in the dining room and living room. I also hung my curtains and a few items around my room!

...the olympics are coming! This past Sunday I watched the speed skating trials and this weekend the figure-staking nationals will be on and I can't wait to see all the olympic hopefuls.
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...It's rMc's birthday! I love this girl and I am excited to celebrate Monday! WooHoo to 24!

...I just got my Lilly New Year's Cheer purchase. I just grabbed the Cassie in black. I have a couple Cassie dresses and they are perfect with boots and a cute scarf or necklace for a Casual Friday. 
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...my project is finished! I had a really big project I began before my vacation back in December and the deadline of Friday was looming but I was able to finish it today which is kind of a miracle since today was the first day of classes so I was crazy busy on top of that. YAY for getting back to a normal schedule.

...the cold is almost gone. I am one of those people who love the south because of the weather, I mean I am not a fan of leaving for work in the morning and the temperature is 8 degrees. No thank you. Luckily, Saturday's high is 71. Much better. For all of you still in the cold, I am sorry but I am glad that my flipflops will be back out.

...it's January, meaning BIRTHDAY MONTH! I am one of those people who loves their birthday and I am even getting my birthday off this year for a long weekend so I am pretty excited to be celebrating with my parents for a nice long, quiet weekend.

What have you been loving this week? Are you an Olympic fan? What is your favorite sport to watch? Any great Lilly deals?

Sunday, January 5, 2014

Sunday Sayings {January 5}

Hey y'all,

As usual, it's Sunday so why not start your week off with a little inspiration...
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Any favorite quotes or verses right now keep you inspired? How are your New Year's resolutions going?

Saturday, January 4, 2014

Behind the Curtain: 52 Questions for 52 weeks

Hey y'all,

So one of my goals this year is to plan out more posts and really have great quality content. Well, on my break I stumbled onto a list of 52 questions and since Saturdays we are always running around I figured I would answer these questions one a week. Who doesn't want to peek behind the curtain like Dorothy did? 
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Here is the list of questions:
  1. What is your full name? Why did your parents give you that name?
  2. When and where were you born? Describe your home, your neighborhood and the town you grew up in.
  3. Tell me about your father (his name, birth date, birthplace, parents, etc.) Can you share some memories you have of your father?
  4. Tell me about your mother (hers name, birth date, birthplace, parents, etc.) Can you share some memories you have of your mother?
  5. What kind of work did your parents do (farm, salesman, manager, seamstress, nurse, stay at home mom, professional/laborer, etc.)
  6. Have any of your family members died yet?  If so, what do remember of their death and what were the circumstances of their death?
  7. What kind of hardships or tragedies did your family experience while you were growing up?
  8. What are the names of your brothers and sisters? Describe one or more things that stand out in your mind about each of your siblings.
  9. What were some of the family traditions that you remember?
  10. Did your family have special ways of celebrating specific holidays?
  11. Share a few memories of your grandparents.
  12. Did your grandparents live close by? If so, how much were they involved in your life?  If they lived far away did you ever travel to visit them?  What was that like?
  13. Do you have any aunts, uncles, or cousins who really stand out in your mind? Write something about them (names, personalities, events that you remember doing with them, etc.)
  14. Where did you go to school? What was school like for you?
  15. What were your favorite subjects in school? Why?
  16. What subjects did you like the least?  Why?
  17. If you went on to get a college or vocational education, what school did you go to? What did you study? What memories do you have of those years?
  18. What do you see as your personal strengths?
  19. What were some of the challenges you faced growing up?
  20. What medical issues have you had to deal with throughout your life?
  21. Was religion an important part of your family life? If so, what religion did your family practice and what did it mean to you? Is it still an important part of your life today? If religion was/is not a part of your life, why isn’t it?
  22. Who were some of your friends in school? What were they like? What ever happened to them?
  23. What foods do you like?  Dislike?
  24. Where there two or three dishes your mother or father made that makes you smile every time you think of them?
  25. How did you meet your spouse?
  26. How would you describe your spouse?
  27. What was your courtship like?
  28. Share some stories about your spouse?
  29. How many children do you have?  What are their names?  Share a few memories about each of your children.
  30. What were some of the major community, national and world events you lived through?
  31. How did some of these events change your life?
  32. What are some of your life philosophies or life views that you would share with others.
  33. What are some of the personal values that are very important to you? What have you done (are you doing now) to teach these values to your children?
  34. Thinking of people throughout the world and throughout time. List at least 5 people who you would categorize as truly great men or woman. What did they do to be great in your mind?
  35. List 20 or more things that make you happy.
  36. List 20 things or more that you think the world would be so much better off without.
  37. List 20 interesting things you’ve experienced in your lifetime.
  38. If you could spend a day with any famous person in the world, who would it be and what would you do during your day with him/her?
  39. What scares you?
  40. Share a few of the deeply moving (spiritual) experiences you’ve had in your life?
  41. What advice would you pass on about raising children that you learned from raising your own children?
  42. What are some of your talents? How did you discover them? What have you done to cultivate and improve them?
  43. What were some of the truly life changing experiences you went through. How did you handle them? In what ways did they change you?
  44. What did you do for a career? Why did you choose to go into this career?
  45. What were some of the jobs you had throughout your life? Were there memorable experiences you had with any of those jobs?
  46. What would you consider as two or three truly significant challenges in your life so far?
  47. What are some of the life lessons that you would like to pass on to your posterity?
  48. How many places have you lived. Provide a brief description of each place you’ve lived and why you lived there.
  49. If you could go back in time and do things over again, what would you change?
  50. When all is said and done, what do you want to be remembered for? What are you doing now to make that happen?
  51. What kind of health issues have you experienced?
  52. What were some of your more memorable vacations?
Extra Questions:
  1. If a newspaper wanted to do a story about you, what would the story be about?
  2. If someone gave you $100 and told you that you had to give it away, but you could NOT give it to your immediate family, what would you do with it?
  3. Have you traveled to any place outside of your home country?  What was the reason for making such trips and what memorable things happen with some of those trips.
  4. What were some of the popular fads during your younger years?
  5. How did you spend your summers?

So today's question is: 
  1. What is your full name? Why did your parents give you that name?
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Well for safety reasons I will just tell you that my name is Jessica Lynn. I was actually the only child in my family not named after a relative so it is kind of strange to look at the family Bible and see my sibling's connection but not mine. My name is a mash-up of names my parent's liked. I mean my Mom liked Jessica and my Dad liked Lynn so here we are. I have had many nicknames over the years though including Messy Jessie, Jess, Jessica-Jessica, Jessie, etc. but I am very happy with my name.

Do you have a fun story behind your name? Want to take part in 52 questions in 52 weeks? Should I make a link-up for this challenge?

Friday, January 3, 2014

5 on Friday {January 3} & Top 5 Books of 2013

Hey y'all,

I can't believe that it is FRIDAY! I am still trying to get my barrings with the long holidays but having a two day work week is pretty great, although, with today's freezing temperatures it was a struggle to get out from under the covers with reports of a windchill temperature of 14. However, here are a few things for this week:

one. House of Cards. I am now obsessed with the show. I started it on Wednesday as I was cleaning and organizing my room and I can't wait for the new season on February 14!
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two. my vacuum. Yep, I did ask for a vacuum for Christmas and I received the Hoover T-Series WindTunnel Bagless Upright from my parents. I really needed a decent vacuum and never wanted to splurge for it on my own but I have since arriving back at my apartment vacuumed the living and dining room and the bedroom is up for tonight.
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three. If you haven't heard, there is an article going around called 23 things to do instead of getting engaged before you're 23. I did not care for the list but this response was amazing and since I am turning 24 at the end of the month I love this list of 24 things to do instead of getting married by 24 which I copied below (really everyone should accomplish this list whether married or not, so all Postgrads I challenge you to make some of these your goals/resolutions for the year 2014):


Sponsor a Child for a year

Read at least 3 NY Times articles every week

Take your parents out for a fancy (non-fast food) meal

Work hard at a job – any job

Travel to a new country

Travel to a new state

Read a classical fiction novel

Teach someone a new skill you have already mastered

Learn a new skill

Learn a new language

Pay off debt

Read the Bible in a year

Be selfless

Join a sports league, art club, orchestra, whatever you’re interested in.

Write a letter to a friend

Learn how to properly set a table

Stop taking bathroom selfies

Vote – local, state, or national election

Embark on a goal that will take at least 10 years to accomplish

Hand write a thank-you note

Buy a nice dress or tux/suit for weddings and funerals

Re-read a favorite book

Spend a day in the mountains alone

and last, but not least…

Make a friend and share a jar of Nutella with them – one sitting or otherwise

four. olypmic mascots. So if you haven't heard the Olympics begin next month and today at lunch a co-worker and I were looking over the Olympic site and stumbled upon all the olympic mascots of the past and the Sochi Olympic Mascots each have their own videos that are quiet ridiculous but gave us all some laughs.
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Thursday, January 2, 2014

14 in 2014

Hey y'all,

I found out that I made some pretty lofty goals last year for my 13 in 13 goals but that's ok since I got close for some of them.Let's do a quick re-cap:
  1. Grow in my faith and my relationship with God. 
  2. Read 113 books. I changed my goal to 100 and I ended up reading 94 books so I think that is completely fine since only 8% of adult Americans on average read more than 50 books.
  3. Try 113 new recipes. This was very lofty goal. I did challenge myself to try new recipes this year but 113 did not happen even with pinterest and checking out some cookbooks from the library.
  4. Run a half marathon. I did run/walk a 5K this summer with my roommate but I haven't had the urge to begin training again. I have a half marathon on my 30 by 30 list so I think this will be on the back burner for a while. 
  5. Lose 13lbs. Also something that didn't happen this year as I adjusted to living by myself I have since moved in with a roommate and got more active, I even have a dietitian but this is happening in 2014
  6. Craft 13 things. 
  7. Meet 13 new people.  Joining in with my church's young professional group, becoming a sorority advisor and new people at work I have extended my circle of friends in my postgrad life.
  8. Keep a prayer journal for the entire year. Something I think of as a continuous goal, while I did not keep my goal for this year I did spend some time journaling my prayers but it was not throughout the entire year.
  9. Buy a car.  You can read all about my car buying experience here and here.
  10. Finish decorating my place. I have moved since last year but I have since begun decorating my current place and I am almost done decorating my room and the living spaces.
  11. Go two months without unnecessary spending. I did limit some spending during the spring before getting my car but I have a friend who is currently not spending money on clothes for two years (except for gift cards) and she is helping me to challenge myself this year to cut off excess spending and focus on my financial savings. YAY for budgeting.
  12. Send out cards.  While I didn't send out birthday cards to everyone I did send out my first year of Christmas cards. This next year though I have a handful of weddings, my baby sis graduates and more occasions for cute cards.
  13. Have adventures. From beach trips, interesting times in downtown Raleigh, and many more I have tried to be open to saying yes to various adventures, which is hard for me since I love to be in 
    control. 
Now let's get onto my 14 goals for 2014:
1. Read the entire Bible. I have read a lot of the word of God but I really want to dig deep and read the entire thing.
2. Read 114 books. I know I fell short of my goal last year but I really think I will be able to accomplish this one.
3. Pay off 2 of my student loans. I have a couple small loans left that if I focus on saving and eliminating I will be able to pay off by the end of the year. It is just one more step towards becoming debt free by 28.
4. Blog at least 3 times a week. Work and life get crazy but I have already made a blog calendar for the month and I would love to focus some of my free time here to grow my little community.
5. Find joy in my job. I love my job but sometime you get so frustrated or bored you forget your blessings and all the great things you have going for you so I want to remain grateful and find joy in the little things especially my job.
6. Work on my health by reaching my happy weight. I have a particular BMI range I want to make it to an by working on the habits I began at the end of 2013 and sticking to my goal I hope to be confident, happy and feel beautiful in my body.
7.Keep up a daily devotional all year. I tend to have a short attention span with devotionals but this year I picked up Jesus Calling and plan to stick to it all year. So far so good.
8.Workout at least 3 times a week. This goes with the reaching my happy weight but I genuinely feel so much better after a great workout. To start the new year off I am participating in Tone It Up's Love Your Body challenge.
9. Cook at least 52 new recipes. This is one a week and I love pouring through cookbooks so I hope I can continue to use Pinterest and cookbooks to spice up my dinners.
10. Participate in the 52 Weeks savings plan. I know a lot of you have seen this on Pinterest but I need to focus my finances on saving not spending and this is an easy tool to save a lot of cash without feeling like all your money is going into savings.
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11. Break from technology. I think we all in this day and age have a problem leaving social media and the rest of the internet but I want to remind myself to be present when with friends and unplug every night.
12. Run 2 5Ks. I want to challenge myself and a half-marathon is a lofty goal so let's start small.
13. No clothes shopping unless it's a necessity. After organizing my closet on New Year's I was reminded of all the blessings I have. I really do not need any more clothes and I will survive until I am at my happy weight when I am sure I will need a pantervention.
14. Remember to love fully, live simply and laugh often.


I think this song is my theme for the new year:



What are your goals/resolutions for this year?

Wednesday, January 1, 2014

Holiday Re-Cap

Hey y'all,

I am back on the blog-wagon and I hope you all enjoyed your holidays with lots of friends and family. I was very blessed to spend time with my family and while I will not detail everyday I thought I could share some of the highlights. I left to go to my parent's house on the 20th and returned to my place on the 31st so I was able to spend a great deal of time with my family including:


  • Dad's office Holiday Party
    • Playing Deal or No Deal and making $25
  • seeing Frozen in theaters again. I mean who is not obsessed with the music after seeing it?
  • coffee with High School friends
  • Lots of sweets: Birthday Cake, Triple Chocolate brownies, Apple Crisp
  • Christmas Eve Children's Mass
  • brownies, tea, and deep chats with the bestie, aMl
  • watching the entire 3 seasons of Lost Girl on Netflix
  • Mom & Pop German Restaurants
  • time at my home church
  • cuddling with Max and Lily
  • hours of Criminal Minds Season 8
  • winning $35 on the scratch-offs in my stockings
  • spending lots of time in my PJs
  • mom's homecooking
  • seeing the Hobbit the Desolation of Smaug for my brother's 29th birthday
  • catching up with my twin, jHl
  • reading a ton!
There is a ton of other things, whether laughter around the kitchen table or making commentary for our cats. 
My Christmas Day outfit
PJ Pants: Old Navy
Sweatshirt: UNC Student Stores
Christmas Cookie from aMl 
I'm already missing these little guys and their cat naps
My New Year's Eve outfit (I was babysitting)
T-shirt: Salty Sea
Leggings: Marika
Scarf: Gift
Monogram Ring: Gift
Bag: 3.1 Phillip Lim for Target
 I hope you had a wonderful holiday!